A large number of men still have fear of rejection, so I hope this mindset shift here will help you to eliminate fear of rejection and become a more attractive & confident man. Hopefully you find my dating advice for men in this article helpful. 😉
- Dating advice for men – When you meet a woman, you need to find out whether she meets your standards.
Neediness comes from lack of high standards. As a high-value man, you have high standards, so when you meet a lady, it’s your job to figure out if she meets your standards or not.
Therefore, your mindset should be “I like you, but…” (e.g., “I like you, but I’m just wondering if you are also interested in travel?”)
When you approach dating and relationships with this new mindset, you won’t have fear of rejection because you are here to evaluate the candidate in front of you and see whether she is the right person for you instead of trying to impress her no matter what.
Once you know she meets one standard of yours, you evaluate her character according to your next standard. You like her more and more, but you don’t like her completely before marrying her. She must respect your boundaries and meet your standards at all times.
Remember, you have to keep the conversation relevant to you & her, i.e., your experiences, preferences, perspectives, and so on. Build a narrative of “us”. 😊
- The clearest signal a lady gives you to move things forward is her justifying herself or qualifying herself.
Interestingly, the playful and flirty progression from ‘not liking her’ to ‘being won over by her’ generates chemistry.
By the way, you are able to go from boring to attractive if you take the conversation to a deep and meaningful direction. For instance, rather than questions such as “What will the weather be like tomorrow?” or “Where did you get this jacket from?”, you’d better ask her questions such as “What are you deeply passionate about in life?”
“Indeed, solid conversations are personal, spontaneous and charged with Chemistry with a capital C which is fun and challenging for her. I’m sure this piece of dating advice for men will make all interactions on the date interesting.”
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