When you go out for a date with a Slavic woman, you probably need to have a plan, especially if you have dating anxiety and tend to feel very nervous on a date.

  • Part 1 of the date: Confidently disagree with her.

During the first 5 minutes of the date, you can disagree with her, thereby building some uncertainty as well as perceived challenge. Note that when she is not sure whether she can have you, she wants to earn your interest and work for you. That’s why when she says “I like pop music”, you can say “I like jazz”. And when she says “My favorite color is red”, you can say “My favorite color is green”. But please don’t make it sound like an argument. This uncertainty has to be subtle because it shouldn’t be overdone!

  • Part 2 of the date: Elegantly agree with her.

After establishing some perceived challenge, you can start to build comfort with her, so it’s time to say something along the lines of, “Well, that’s actually a really good point.” Now she feels that she has earned your approval. In psychology, when a woman feels like she has worked for you or has invested in her relationship with you, she values you more. 😊

  • Part 3 of the date: It’s time for her to prove herself.

If you actually have dating anxiety, please remember that this Slavic woman has to prove herself – you need to find out whether she is the right candidate for you!

Hence, you can ask her questions such as “Can you cook?” & “What’s your favorite book?” Now she wants to let you know that she is a capable and intelligent lady.

  • You don’t necessarily have to follow the above-mentioned model, but you must have a plan.

When you are very well-prepared, you feel much more confident and positive. In contrast, when you don’t even know what you are doing, you are less confident and less effective.

Speaking of dating a Slavic woman, you would be well-advised to have a plan that works for you. That’s your unfair advantage because most men don’t have a plan when it comes to dating and relationships – they leave this kind of things to chance/luck. But since you have read this blog article today, you will approach dating differently.

What’s your unfair advantage in dating & relationships?