How to quickly raise your confidence in international dating

Lack of confidence is a problem that many men deal with in dating and relationships. For example, Dean becomes scared whenever he tries to start a conversation with a woman that he is attracted to. He runs away the moment a woman shows interest. Afterwards, he blames himself as he is not good at flirting at all. Dean is keen to try international dating because he is curious about Eastern European culture, so he would like to work on his confidence – he doesn’t want to become shy or anxious when he likes a woman.

Flirting isn’t a mysterious thing!

In fact, flirting can come in the form of you being playful, cheeky or simply challenging the person you are dating in the right ways. It’s a way to keep someone slightly off-balance. 😉

Indeed, everyone is much better at flirting when they have no skin in the game. However, this changes when the date is a woman that you are madly attracted to. That’s exactly when you lose the looseness of flirtation which you totally need so as to flirt correctly. Remember that you cannot flirt well when you are so uptight. So, what you truly need is probably a sense of abandon. Truthfully, you can achieve that through lowering the stakes, i.e., you remind ourself that you don’t even know this woman yet because this is your first date with her; therefore, you are not sure whether she is good for you or not at this stage.

In international dating, you can become better at flirting by practicing that more often. What would happen if you feel silly at times or fumble your words occasionally? She might find that cute or attractive when you make a joke about it or own it. In terms of flirting, if you merely define winning as you meeting the right woman that you will marry, that might make you sad quite often as that’s a narrow-minded way to approach dating. Don’t forget that you will probably meet more than one person before finding the one.

No matter you meet the right person right now or not, there are various prizes along the way in this journey.

Most people don’t marry the first person they date. It usually takes some time for everyone to meet someone suitable.

If you aren’t meeting the one today, that doesn’t mean you have failed. As a matter of fact, you will learn a lot about yourself, women, love, dating, relationships and life while you are looking for true love.

Dean has been dating for about one year. Although he hasn’t found the one yet, he has found a good job through a woman that he went out with; he has found some high-quality friendships because of the dates that he had. He has certainly learned a lot about love and life in this process. Therefore, it is clear that dating is possibly an enormous part of your life. You improve your social skills, communication skills, conversation skills, insights into human nature as well as your vision for the future in this journey.