Most people feel uncomfortable when there is an awkward silence, but if you know how to turn this silence into something powerful, you will have another tool in your toolbox!

Actually, I encourage you to create silences deliberately by introducing pauses to your conversation with her.

As a matter of fact, if you have to constantly talk, you look more nervous and less confident.

However, when you feel okay during silences, you look more relaxed and more confident.

When you want to build massive chemistry with her, you can talk slowly and then pause.

Now you look at her eyes for a second, look at her nose for a second, look at her lips for a second, and then look at her eyebrows for a second.

You don’t have to count “1, 2, 3, 4” in your head, but you’ve got the gist – your eyes are slowly “travelling” on her beautiful face during the silence.

The Eastern European lady has seen enough romantic movies, so she understands what that means.

Now you’ve built massive attraction with her.

Chances are she is secretly thinking… “When is he going to kiss me?” on a real date.

And that’s exactly what you want.

Bonus tips:

  1.  Always say more statements and ask fewer questions. When you use statements more often, you look more confident. When you ask too many questions, you look less certain.
  2. When you actually ask a girl a question, make sure the question is meaningful and deep if you can.
  3. Most statements that you say should be some kind of comment on her motivations, emotions and feelings. Remember: women are more emotional than men, so it’s easier for you to build a strong emotional connection with a woman if you can connect with her emotions directly.

Hopefully this will help you start the first step in this journey.

 “In a social context, if you can get a wing man and a wing woman to help you, that will be even more effective because in that case, this girl can see that there is another girl in your social circle already – that’s social proof which also implies competition, meaning you are not a crazy guy – other girls already want to hang out with you. Your wing man must be less attractive than you, but your wing woman should be more attractive than this Eastern European woman!”