On an online dating website, you ask a woman out, but she says, “I will let you know” as a vague response. Actually, this is a common response because many women are not decisive. Knowing how to handle this response correctly will give you more confidence in dating and relationships.

  • Don’t be pushy.

Your ideal response isn’t “Just tell me when is a good time to meet and I’ll make it work.” Frankly, this response is not bad; it’s just pushy. It can work for some women, but this response probably gives women too much power – you ask her to tell you when is a good time for her to meet you, yet what about a good time for you to meet her?

Therefore, a better response is “You are busy. I’ll meet you another time when you are free.” This is a pretty cool response because it shows that you are not fazed by her message. Meanwhile, this response gives you more space for further chemistry to develop. Your assertive attitude is attractive! 

If a woman doesn’t give you her time, that’s a red flag because that means she is not interested and not investing in you. As a result, you should save your time for someone who deserves your love and attention. I’m sure this mindset is good for your self-esteem and general approach in dating and relationships.

Of course, you can use a playful response such as “Should this be the last time I’m asking?” Adding emojis to this message makes it fun and playful. Hence, this message reduces pressure and helps you make a stronger connection under the radar. By the way, because this response indicates that you are not emotionally invested in the initial interaction, it shows outcome independence which makes you a more confident guy in online dating. In other words, your happiness is not determined by one initial interaction before someone proves themselves.

  • If a woman gives you a vague response, you can let it go.

Remember: There are many eligible women on online dating websites where you can find true love. As long as you are willing to learn more dating skills, you don’t need this initial interaction to become anything – you have options. Note that if you aren’t confident in your current ability to meet and date women, the solution is not to hold onto this initial interaction even tighter – the solution is to work on your ability and techniques to meet and attract someone who will love you.

“Do you have the right dating skills and the unshakeable confidence in the online dating space?”