Research shows that before 55 years of age, there are equal numbers of men and women on dating websites. However, after 56 years old, there are definitely more women than men on dating sites. A study shows that it’s more difficult for women to find partners in the senior dating department. Therefore, single older men surely have more options in dating and relationships. That’s why single older men are more likely to quickly find partners that can meet their needs and expectations via online dating.

  • Statistics don’t apply to the individual.

People may tell you that statistics indicate that single dads and single moms find it harder to start new relationships. Gurus might even tell you that senior dating is objectively harder.

But truthfully, statistics don’t even matter. You don’t have to worry about the statistics in order to get the results, even if you are a single dad, single mom or senior dater. Please let me explain.

If you are a single dad, single mom or senior dater, please don’t be concerned because every day there are single dads, single moms and senior daters getting married – if these people can do it, so can you.

Let your personality and positivity shine.

Initiate fun conversations with others on online dating websites.

Be interesting, curious and open-minded. Prepare something engaging to say on every date and be interested in the person sitting in front of you – discover this person’s character, ask questions, observe her behavior, pay attention to what she is actually saying and connect with her through sharing feelings and emotions.

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  • You’d better fill your own cup first.  

In life, if you don’t put yourself first, you’ll feel exhausted sooner or later. Consequently, you won’t have enough energy to share with anyone, not to mention taking care of other people. Clearly, filling your own cup first is paramount.

When a man puts a woman on a pedestal, his happiness is directly determined by what she says and does. That is to say, he isn’t really responsible for his own happiness; his life is in her control. Thus, a smart modern man who is ready to find real love on an online dating website has to put himself first so he will have the energy to love his lady. Are you filling your cup first? Do you put women on a pedestal? Note that if you put a woman on a pedestal, she will sense it immediately. Please don’t do that. We are all equal.

“Online dating is the primary method of meeting someone for a romantic relationship these days.”