Giving your Eastern European girlfriend something to live up to or look forward to is a key skill in dating.

  • When you are on a date with a woman from Eastern Europe, remember to smile and laugh.

Many men believe in this myth: They think women are attracted to James Bond.

Well, technically, yes, women like James Bond. But realistically, it’s incredibly difficult for James Bond to connect with women because a lot of women would be intimidated by him in reality.

Therefore, when you are on a date with a woman from Eastern Europe, you would be well-advised to relax. Note that being attractive/desirable is way more about being fun than it is about being cool. And the best way to be fun is to seem like you are having fun already.

Flirting is about giving her your best so that she wants to keep pursuing you. Yes, you read that right. I said she will want to pursue you.

Please note that women want men just as much as men want women – women simply don’t want to show their desire.

 

  • If you have some time to prepare before going to Eastern Europe…

Let’s say you have two months left before visiting your lady in Eastern Europe. Now I’d like to give you a 2-month challenge.

During these two months, you will upgrade your lifestyle and become a better version of yourself.

First of all, you will need to have the right mindset (confidence). Also, you need to know how to get the results you want (competence). Remember: confidence and competence have to go together.

Ask yourself, “Am I doing it? If I’m not doing it, I don’t know it.” That’s right. No matter how many motivational books and dating books you have read so far, if you are not implementing what you’ve learned, then you haven’t learned anything.

Two months later, the landscape of your life will look very different if you start to implement what you’ve read on blogs and in books. In order to help you further, you may have a look at the following questions before visiting your lady in Eastern Europe:

  1. How do I use what I have? What assets do I have? (Think knowledge, skills, charisma, etc.)
  2. Am I making the best of what I have?
  3. What I can’t change – either love it or ignore it (e.g. age, family background, etc.)
  4. What I can change – change it! (If you are unhappy with your height, learn from Roger Sterling who keeps a secret tool in his shoes.)

 “In real relationships, men and women are practical – always value respect for each other first.”