In terms of a person’s looks, there are two types of attractiveness: objective attractiveness and perceived attractiveness. Based on scientific research, objective attractiveness is all about symmetry which is considered the most important thing in terms of facial attractiveness, for having a face which is equal on both sides is oftentimes a biological sign that tells others that good genes could be found in this individual. But we could only do so much in order to improve our objective attractiveness – dressing well, getting a cosmetic surgery, and so forth. Yet there are many things you can do to improve your perceived attractiveness.
Work on your charisma.
It turns out that individuals with average faces could be attractive as well, e.g. Will Smith, Tom Cruise and Bill Clinton – these celebrities aren’t necessarily extremely good-looking, yet they are very charismatic. That’s why they are very attractive!
If you’d like to work on your charisma, you may start from your conversational skills. Once you’ve become an engaging person, you look more interesting. That’s how you become attractive as a delightful conversationalist.
When you approach a Ukrainian lady on an international dating website, you may ask her “How have you been?” instead of “How are you?” – that’s because “How have you been?” makes the Ukrainian lady feel that you have known each other for a while before the conversation starts. Thus, it’s a highly effective method to build some rapport quickly with the lady from Ukraine.
During a delightful video conversation with a lady you like, you should pause and say, “So, I’m curious….” Don’t be afraid of silence when you are having an interesting conversation with a lady online – silence is actually very key because silence builds attraction. So, you can totally pause and say, “So, I’m curious” and then you pause again. Of course, the Ukrainian woman will pay more attention to you immediately. Now you continue and ask her, “If you could wake up anywhere on the planet tomorrow, where would you like to wake up tomorrow morning?”
Don’t focus on small talk. Remember to ask the Ukrainian woman specific questions at an emotional level. That means you don’t focus on “What do you do?” Instead, you ask her, “You look very intelligent. Are you a teacher?” You also don’t focus on “Do you enjoy your work?” Instead, you ask her, “Why do you want to be a teacher?” Many people have had small talk with this lady – that’s exactly why you should totally stand out and be outstanding!
How to be an attractive person in a relationship:
Once you are in a relationship with a Ukrainian woman, you want to stay attractive! So, here are some top tips for you to consider:
- Do not make money the elephant in the room in your relationship. This is a taboo topic because people in western countries generally do not want to talk about money at all. That’s why money is also a taboo topic in dating, unfortunately. Yet money is certainly an important topic in a relationship, and it’s also an unavoidable topic if it’s a long-term, serious relationship. You would be well-advised to talk about finances with your girlfriend in an honest way.
- You don’t need to know your girlfriend’s social media password. Some couples even share their social media passwords with each other. But that’s not necessary. If there is an issue in a relationship, you need to address the issue. If there isn’t any issue in a relationship, why do you need to know your girlfriend’s social media password? We’ve never seen a happy couple who solved their problems by remembering each other’s passwords.
“If an individual is knowledgeable and worldly, other people will naturally associate them with charisma and attractiveness because a person like that can have very intelligent conversations with others. Clearly, life-long learners are usually very attractive.”